This thread is for anyone that wants to discuss matters of the heart, rant, ask for advice, etc from your fellow peers.

 

Let me start off.

 

It’s been 9 months since me and my fiancé broke off the engagement and subsequently ending the relationship immediately after.  I can deal with the issue that the relationship ended because of me and I’ll admit I did screw up more than once.  But tell me 9 months is a long time so why am I still thinking of him?  I’ve done what I’ve normally done ever since; work, go out and have fun, take up a hobby…but why does when I wake up the first words out of my mouth is his name? 

 

I don’t understand…I banish him from my mind and then suddenly memories just flood back in.  I know I’ve acted like this after break ups but this one seems different; I still think of him everyday…every…single…day.

Well it seems pretty clear to me that you still miss him. Whether or not you still love him is a different matter. It may just be that you're having a hard time readapting to your old life without him. But then again, there's always the more likely chance that you are still in love with him, and I don't know if anything your or anyone else can change that. Your best hope is probably to try and find someone else.

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What's the point of a hero with no one to save?

Le sigh

yeah i think flffys right you may still miss him/love him and possibly want to be with him your best bet is trying to find someone else and hope that your fellings for your ex done interfeer

Join the club. I still wake up everyonce in a while expecting to be in Sid's room or in Mike's. Its ****ing annoying above everything else >< My brain hates me.
The only thing I can think of is, you, like me, are not used to doing things the old way. Readjusting is a bitch, and me and Sid have been broken up for over 3 years ><

Good luck hun *huggles*

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...My wings were just so tasty.


I love mankind, it's people I can't stand.

Thanks, I actually went to a place and helped me sort out my feelings. I had a lot of time to think about things and in the end, I have no regrets. When I think about it I guess I've just become so dependant on relationships.  It’s going to be awhile before I get through it but I’m happy with how things are going for me. *Hugs Mod back*

well good luck

So long as you're actually happy with the way things are and you have no regrets, you'll do just fine, even if it takes a while.

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What's the point of a hero with no one to save?

Le sigh

hehhee.. becoming dependant on relationships can be a bad thing.. coure for me its the 1 thing keeping me alive.. and without them.. *sighs* life isn't worth living for me.. friends can't make up for everything now can they.. even if everyone in the frelling world is your friend they can't make up for it.. hell... even I can't make up for the pain I've casued people.. and UI can't always help people with all their problems.. but I'm dependant on being there for people..a nd putting them before myself.. and being the heart and soul of my friends fight against pain.. albeit I jave no heart and soul of mine own to fight with since mines already battling.

 

personally.. you probably still love him in your own way.. miss him in your own way.. and yeah you prolly were a bit dependant.. but as I know nothing of your situation.. eh.. but yeah.. I know all too well how much things can hurt or linger.. its been 4 years since I was.. broken by 1 of the people I've loved.. and I still love that person... more then I ever did I think.

 

and then there was Neko.. yep.. I screw up at every turn.. I fall in love with people I know I have no business loving... mew.. eh... some of them ehre.. some elsewhere.. some RL some online.. it doesn't matter... I just do... I'm a hopeless romantic.. I have no sense of right or wrong when it comes to them.. I only know the basics.. no hurting.. no pain.. all good.. there is nothing better then being in the grasp of someoen who you care for in my opinion.. but thne again.. I have little experience.. as not many have cared for someone as deserveless as me.. v_v but yeah... nyo.. I'm weak willed when it comes to my own emotions.. i don't defeat them ever.. I don't control them.. I can't control them.. I only keep myself from doing evil as best I can.. its not like I can do anything else but live my life. mrow.. *sigh* eh.. life is for those who have lost and need to find.. and I've lost too much to find all of it so whats life for for me.. I don't know. but I'll just keep searching.

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Love`kitten, wandering the world in a dissarray of blinding emotions, wondering who'll lift the viel and let me see, truely see....

Relationships can be a b¡tch, it's no secret. We've all had heartache, heartbreak, and headaches due to get togethers, break ups, or arguements.

I used to think that there was no point to them... that anybody who said they were in love when they were young enough to still be in high school and around there were fools.. I thought that there was no way that any of these "stupid" teenage romances could truly be anything more.. I never thought that someone my age (18) could understand what love really is.

It's going on two years of the best relationship of my life, and call it odd if you want, it's been nothing but online, though we've talked on the phone. It's the best relationship I've ever known, and I wouldn't change a thing. I believe that the distance (Ohio to Texas) has actually made us both stronger and built on the relationship rather than hindering it.

I've known the person I want to spend the rest of my life with since I was 14-15. If you had told me before I met her that I would never love another, never feel this strong towards someone else at this age.. I would have laughed in your face and told you that you were crazy. Alas my younger stupidity proved to show just how stubborn I could be, because I have met the perfect girl... the only girl.. for me, and I never will feel this strongly about anyone ever again.

It's ironic how the very thing you strongly disbelieve in is the thing that happens to you.

(that twas my random relationship schpeel)